Model Reverence (Praying for Rain! United Prayer)

When we pray, we are approaching the throne room of the King of the Universe. Lead others by your example to behave reverently in both word and manner. We encourage kneeling but understand that circumstances may require some to sit in a chair. “True reverence for God is inspired by a sense of His
infinite greatness and a realization of His presence. . . . The hour and place of prayer are sacred, because God is there. . . . Angels, when they speak that name, veil their faces. With what reverence, then, should we, who are fallen and sinful, take it upon our lips!” Prayer, p. 209 

Let the Holy Spirit Lead (Praying for Rain! United Prayer)

The prayer leader naturally feels the responsibility to lead and keep things moving. However, as already stated, each prayer session is a group conversation with God, and as such, we must expect the occasional
lull in conversation. These periods of silence may feel awkward, but they are not to be feared. The Holy Spirit uses these times to speak to hearts.  Also, it may be during these moments that the more timid find the opportunity to pray. As a leader, resist the urge to dominate by jumping in immediately to keep the prayer time moving. Allow the Holy Spirit to work and dictate the pace.